Your wedding reception is finally here! With the ceremony complete, you breathe a sigh of relief and look around the venue, decked out just as you envisioned it would be. Your guests may not fully realize it, but you and your new spouse have put a lot of time and thought into making this party a success. Every detail, from the centerpieces to the canapés, has been meticulously planned.
Perhaps one of the less glamorous details of planning a wedding reception is making seating arrangements. You’ve got to account for the size of the venue, keep up with RSVP letters, ensure good traffic flow to the bar and dance floor, and make sure that all guests are set up for a great time during the celebration.
As you begin planning your wedding, perhaps you’re wondering whether you should put together a seating chart for the reception. Should you give each guest an assigned place at the table? Or let them navigate on their own and choose a seat for themselves? There are pros and cons to both options. Here are some to consider.
The Pros of Having a Seating Chart
It simplifies things if you have a large group of guests.
You know that feeling of trying to find a seat in the school cafeteria? It can be a bit awkward sometimes. If you’ve got more than 75 people in your reception venue, a seating chart will help simplify everyone finding a seat. Having so many guests scout out empty seats on their own could make for a messy free-for-all. This way, all those people know exactly where they’re supposed to be. There’s no guesswork required, and absolutely no school cafeteria flashbacks.
It ensures that you’re making the most of your venue space.
One of the benefits of planning the seating arrangements ahead of time is that you know you’ll be maximizing the space you’re paying for. You can fill tables completely and make sure that there are no empty seats.
If you have a plated dinner service, it simplifies the work of the waitstaff.
Instead of having to find your guests, your wait staff will know in advance where to take the grilled salmon and where to take the filet mignon. In fact, your venue may require this, so make sure you check with the venue’s coordinator.
You have more control over creating a great guest experience.
You know your guests: the social butterflies, the shy ones, the ones who do (and don’t) get along. Armed with this knowledge, you can be strategic about seating people in certain places. It’ll give you peace of mind, and your guests will surely appreciate your thoughtfulness.
The Cons of Having a Seating Chart
You’re more dependent on RSVPs.
This is one of the most frustrating parts of wedding planning for many couples: waiting on a few stragglers to indicate whether they’ll be in attendance or not. When you’re building a seating chart, you first need to understand who is actually going to be at the party. If you haven’t built enough time for all guests to RSVP and you’re stressing about it, having a seating chart may not be the best option for you.
There can be last-minute surprises.
All the planning in the world won’t stop last-minute issues and surprises from popping up on the day of your wedding, and that includes changes to the guest list and seating chart. Maybe an out-of-town friend decides at the last minute that she can in fact make it to your wedding. Perhaps your cousin’s family suddenly came down with the flu, leaving four empty chairs in your carefully arranged seating chart. Be mindful that no plan is perfect, and that some last-minute shuffling may be required.
Building a seating chart can be time-consuming.
Sure, creating a seating chart may sound straightforward enough: almost like solving a jigsaw puzzle. But you’ll quickly realize that it can be a frustrating and lengthy process as well. This is a headache you can save yourself during wedding planning, if you choose.
Whether your guests are assigned to a certain seat at your wedding or are invited to station themselves wherever they like, remember that there is no truly right or wrong answer. It all depends on you, your spouse-to-be, and your unique vision for your big day.
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